Start with foreplay
Although you might think of blowjobs as a form of foreplay, you need to build up anticipation before the act begins. Think about it – how much better does oral feel for you when your partner teases you beforehand? Let your hands roam all over his body, kiss him, breathe on his dick instead of sucking on it immediately. Play with his nipples, if he’s into that. Caress his thighs, grab his butt, kiss him, talk dirty if you’re feeling like it. And once you find your way down there, don’t take it all at once, start slow. Lick his shaft, kiss the head, and don’t forget about eye contact! Looking at your man while you’re sucking him off can be very arousing, for both parties.
Be enthusiastic
Trust me, he will know if you’re not into it. If you’re sucking him off just to get it out of the way, he will realize that you’re rushing it, pushing all of his buttons just to get him to finish faster. You don’t like it when he’s not into it, so why should he be happy about it, even if his dick is in your mouth? One very important thing most girls forget is moaning. Moan as if your life depends on it! Again, don’t overdo it because he will be able to tell. The sounds that escape your mouth are very arousing, and the vibrations created by your throat and tongue can create extra sensations around his shaft that are a total game-changer.
Don’t forget the family jewels
Most women simply focus on the shaft and the head. However, if you want to be a pro, you’re going to have to pay attention to his balls! Some men might not like the feeling of having their balls licked or touched, so test the waters. Start out slowly with a finger or two, ad then work your way up to actually sucking those babies off. While you’re doing that, use your hands on his shaft to create sensations all over his cock. And if you’re both feeling courageous, play with his butthole! You can simply circle around it, or push a finger if he gives you the green light.
Mind your teeth
This is a mistake many beginners make. No one likes the feeling of sharp teeth grating on their very sensitive genitals! However, there are men out there that love a soft nibble or some contact with teeth, but they are rare, and I’m sure they will let you know. There’s a reason why plump lips are called blowjob lips. If you can’t open your mouth enough to avoid nicking him with your teeth, wrap your lips around them to create a barrier!
Don’t be afraid to be sloppy
Lubrication is very important, especially if your man is circumcised. You know that dry sex feels horrible, so why should a dry blowjob be any better? This problem has a very easy fix – besides working with his precum, you can salivate all over his dick. Don’t be afraid to drool, and don’t swallow anything while you’re working on him. Let that natural lubrication remove any friction, and most men absolutely love it when they see that you’re dripping with a mix of his precum and your saliva. You can use lube too, especially lube with flavor, to make things more interesting, but I believe that natural is the way to go!
Listen to your partner
Finally, listen to what he has to say. Ask him what feels good, and what doesn’t help him reach that finish line. Communication is very important, and how can anything feel good if you don’t know what feels good to him? If he wants deepthroating, you’ll need to work your way into that. Start off slow, and let him go deeper and deeper into your mouth until you can safely and confidently take him all in without gagging. You won’t be able to breathe because his member will cut off your breathing, so you need to be comfortable with it. Swallow his cum if that turns him on and if you’re okay with it. If he’s into face fucking, work out whether you’re fine with someone using your mouth as nothing but a hole to shoot his load into. I love letting him grab my hair and using me however he feels is right, but this is not something every woman loves. To sum it all up, ask away and you’ll see your skills and his arousal sky-rocket!
